I'm Lorna, and People Fascinate Me
I’ve always been fascinated by the ways people come together. How they meet. How they hold each other. How they carry memories forward. That understanding shapes the ceremonies I write: thoughtful, personal words that honour each person, their relationships, and the moments that matter most. No two ceremonies should be the same because no two lives are the same.
Home is the Surrey and Hampshire border near Farnham, where I live with my family. My heart is at home with my family and friends but I love the variety and adventure in travelling and seeing new places.
I care about getting it right. Really right. I’m also naturally curious, so I will probably ask the questions you aren’t expecting. So I listen, notice and understand. Your story matters; I will give it a voice.
The Moments I'd Be Honoured to Write For
Weddings and Vow Renewals
Your ceremony can happen where you want it to, sound how you want it to and be the length you’d like it to be. Barn, woodland, country house, back garden, beach and everything in between. Furry friends are welcome, children can be as involved as you wish.
Funerals and Celebrations of Life
A goodbye that is as unique as the person it is for and as personal as the bond you share. I will listen, gather the stories that matter and give your family a service that lets everyone remember your special person in your special way.
Naming Ceremonies
A warm, welcoming way to mark a new arrival. Involving you and as well as the people you choose to stand beside them, I will ensure your naming ceremony will leave you with lasting memories to treasure forever.
Destination Weddings
If your day is happening somewhere with a view worth travelling for, take me with you. Your ceremony shouldn’t be left at home.
Personal and True, Every Single Time
A ceremony should sound like the people at the heart of it. That only happens if I take the time to get to know you properly, so I do.
We meet face to face wherever suits you, at a time that suits you, because sitting across from someone tells me things a form never will. If you would rather talk by video or phone, I will happily be led by you.
Whether you want lively and relaxed or gentle and traditional, classic or completely unconventional, I can write it and deliver it with confidence. Adaptability is key to making your day a success.
Every ceremony I write comes back to you as a keepsake copy, yours to keep and hold on to.
Words That Mean the Most to Me
"If you are looking for someone who is full of love and has a beautiful way with words to celebrate your loved one, I would highly recommend Lorna as your celebrant. She will put everything she has into making your service incredibly personal and one which allows people the chance to not only remember but also smile. Lorna cares deeply about ensuring your experience is as easy as possible, particularly in the hardest times. I have no doubt that she is the best person for your special occasion."
Amanda May, Farnborough
"Lorna is a great celebrant as she listens, has empathy and is a good public speaker. I would recommend her services to my family and friends."
Hilary Hollis, Guildford
From Farnham, and Happily Further
I am based near Farnham on the Surrey and Hampshire border, and I regularly cover Haslemere, Alton, Godalming, Guildford, Woking, Fleet, Aldershot, Farnborough, Mytchett, Frimley, Camberley and Basingstoke.
The area is quietly spoiled for beautiful places to gather. Loseley Estate and its Tithe Barn, Farnham Castle, Guildford Castle, Stoke Park, Pennyhill Park, Frimley Hall Hotel, Frimley Lodge, The Aviator at Farnborough, Manor Park and the natural burial site at Clandon. However, your ceremony does not need a licensed venue, so if the place you love is a field, a garden or a stretch of coastline, that works too.
Start With a Cup of Tea and a Good Conversation
There are no obligations and no pressure in a first conversation. I will take the time to listen to what you are looking for, understand you and what you are planning, and I will tell you honestly whether I am the right celebrant for you.
Email hello@lornabye.co.uk or call 07347 082987.